Passive-aggressive behavior is not a pleasant form for the emotion of anger. It is a label like anything else. We are all labeled negatively by others, and I have worn this label before. Do not believe anything anyone tells you, even if they are the smartest person in the world.
Why do we judge and label people? It lessens our label and makes us feel good about ourselves. Our judgements and categories we put people in, no matter what professional training we have, is a reflection and projection of ourselves. That person is passive-aggressive because I tend to be that way. I have the authority and knowledge to say I am not and they are. See how manipulative people can be. Here is an article about how to improve your emotional intelligence.
Passive-aggressive Behavior Is a Control Element
Back in the day, psychiatrists were smarter than the average person, or so they say. The diagnosis of a mental illness, including passive-aggressive behavior used to cover up the real trauma someone went through. I kept fighting and fighting for my truth once I got out of the military, but the military did not record what really happened to me, which is a form of bureaucratic corruption.
After coming back home, when I shared my story with anyone assigned to my case in the veteran administration medical community, I wore the label of being delusional and no one believed me. What happened afterwards was living heavily medicated for many years, so I would shut the hell up while in a controlled brain fog put upon me. Even in my one and only marriage, my now former wife and her son said I was passive-aggressive. It was all hogwash, so I am glad I got out that because they did not accept my truth or experience the real me. I had to live the lie for the longest time, until my mind came back, and I started learning again. Still, I am in this illusion or matrix just like everyone else, except the world elite and their leaders. I do not have anger over it, though.
Now, Almost Everyone Accepts Lie as Truth
Today, even artificial intelligence programmed to give you the answers the world wants you to read or hear and believe. It is still a form of manipulation of the highly controlling factions of the world. The truth of what I am writing will disclose or expose many years from now, and probably after I am gone. Here is another post about me and emotional response at https://paulwylie.net/outlier-and-rebellious-veteran-without-regrets/.
Today, after several epiphanies, I know the truth of everything I went through. Frankly, it depresses me. There is no fear or anger, and physical death may be a blessing much to the dismay of everyone who still loves me.
The truth is that I was never was mentally ill or had passive-aggressive behavior. It is a role I had to play to fit into this world and provide pay for the so-called intelligent doctors, who make too much money anyway.
If you think God is in control, you may need to think again. That statement will make me unpopular, and that is okay. I do not need validation from anyone.