The deconstruction of the older single man. At first, he looks rugged in his sixties. It is because all the struggles come forth as wrinkles and scars of his younger days. The younger women become attracted to this kind of man, who shows wisdom and the look of having been around the block a few times. He is socially best for a sexual fling with a younger woman.
Then you have the older more mature woman, who rolls her eyes at the older single man. She makes him feel like no one needs him and worth the time of day for her. These women have too much love in the lives to even be concerned for him. Whether the love comes through from their older children they spend time with or the grand babies with whom they spend a lot of time. For women, the sexual decline or interest is gradual and natural. Men of the same age, of course, find ways of staying youthful by becoming gym rats. They work on their bodies while maintaining their sexuality through self-pleasure. These kins of men may or may not experience the deconstruction of an older single man.
There is the tough guy, who looks like he can dominate any woman if he wants. He will restrain from sex, even with himself, for a long time like a boxer training for a big fight. Men know the glory of having the pleasure of sex with a woman after a fight, because that is most natural in the species of dominate males and their spouse or lover. In an external post, their is a .
The Deconstruction of an Older Single Man Is Common
Many of these older single men, do not fit that role, so they resort to pornography. They spend lots of money, just to see a few naked pics and have a dirty chat. These kinds of women are making money for the benefit of many of the older men soloing to an XXX rated live cam show or being the alluring dancer at a strip club. All they care about is getting money somehow to feed their young kiddos while living in the poor house. Older men may lose their sexuality for this very reason.
Then you have the average single older man, who tells everyone he is fine, but is honestly not. He will cry and often pray to God as to what he has done wrong to deserve to be alone. Most women do not see the emotional pain of a man, who can be both blissful in solitude and depressed in loneliness. That is a big reason for male suicide, both young and old, especially, who continually are receive rejections by women.
They lose their sexuality because they give up and stop using it. For men, who remain married, it may be because of them or their spouse being ill, so they become medically celibate as the sex fades in the relationship. In another post, I explain why awakening alone can be difficult. Men may lose their sexuality for various reasons.
Men Must Keep Hope Alive
Where am I at in regards of what I just wrote. Well, I have experienced all these situations of an older man except for have myself or spouse severely ill and losing interest altogether. No matter what happens to me, I am accepting it and will still improve myself, if possible, in other ways.
I enjoy the peace of being an older single man, but I miss intimacy sometimes or being able to have someone care enough to check on me every day or at least, communicate in some form. I know that no matter whether I will love a woman or not, the idea of having a sacred union will remain. That would be a rare kind of love for me, at this age.
So really the deconstruction of an older single man is up to the man who may be experiencing it, but it does not have to continue to be that way. It is all in the state of mind he has, and it can go back and forth.
No matter how old a single man gets, he must not lose hope.
