Love and marriage can be difficult. In fact, it's a common experience that love and marriage can be both important and difficult for many couples. Why? The world has it all wrong about the concept of falling in love, getting married, and having a family. You see so many false dichotomies of this truth in movies, books, podcasts, social media, and from other people. Most people are like me and have no clue about truth.
Over the years, I have noticed a recurring pattern: men expected to pursue, while women expected to pull away. A striking example was an old cartoon showing a caveman chasing a woman with a club and “winning” her by knocking her over the head and dragging her back to his cave. Today, that image is unpopular because it portrays men in a crude and offensive way.
Here is what people are not going to like about me and what I am writing here. Let me take a quote from Leo Tolstoy, the Russian novelist who wrote ‘War and Peace,’ one of the thickest and longest novels in history. 'Don’t marry until you’ve stopped loving the woman you’ve chosen, until you see her clearly, otherwise...' The reality of love and marriage must remain true. Read the rest of the quote here at Economic Times/India Times.
Love and Marriage are Both Important and Difficult
This opened my eyes to something I will do from now on. I will not love and or marry a woman, unless I know every piece of “defecation” about her to the point where she aggravates the hell out of me. She, of course, should know all my excretions too. In other words, I will not love her until I loathe some of her past and current actions. Real love is when truth disclosed and acceptance of the person for everything, they do, both good and maliciously evil, in some respects. It is an aspect of the relationship that will take a lot of work from both me and her. Thus, love and marriage can be difficult.
We often go around bragging about our good side and all our accomplishments, especially dating sites or forums. Love and marriage must be true and honest. Women want that perfect man, and we know what most men want, which is sad. It is that domineering alpha or bad boy mindset that thrills and excites many women, unfortunately. Yes, that dominant and barbaric cave man will protect me and the children unlike that geeky nerd sitting in the corner picking his nose. Laugh, if you will, but we all know it is true. True love is the presence of God, as I previously posted.
Once You Are One With God, Love and Marriage are Easy
I am not an expert on relationships and life. Though, I have experienced and am still experiencing a few enlightening truths about me, the world, and the universe. We are all caught in lies, deception, and are at a point where no one can believe anything nowadays, especially online or shown on the television. If I go and read something about demonology or listen to podcasts or interviews with experts in that field does not mean I am going to participate in it or make it my practice.
No matter your beliefs, love and marriage are both difficult and true.There are some recommended demonology authors like Barry Fitzgerald and Paul Sinclair. There are also three other people I recommend watching video interviews with and reading their literature, and they are Kevin Trudeau, Aaron Abke, and Darius J. Wright because of their spiritual connection. The last three all know love and marriage must be true.
If you understand this in some or any way, please reach out to me or comment. I would like to know your feelings or understanding of truth as you see it. Please do not connect with me in argument of your conditioned or limited religious beliefs. Thanks.